January 24, 2010

My Heroine

I've always looked up to my older sister. She's smart, beautiful, and independent. She never seems to care about what others think about her and I admire her for that. I'm always worried about other perceptions and I've never been as confident as her. When she walks into a room, it seems like all the attention just shifts to her and she doesn't even try.

About 7 months ago, my sister told me that she was a lesbian. She said that she always knew, but growing up in my family, she always was trying to fight and deny it. My family is very conservative and sometimes I think my dad is even homophobic. Since we're really close, I was the only one in our family that she told. I didn't care. If thats who she was and if that's what made her happy I was fine. I've always looked up to her and I'll always love her. She has gone through a lot in her life and she has managed to rise above all of her issues and become a successful women with a promising career.

Last night my sister decided to make a bold decision and come out to the rest of our family. Even our grandparents. I was so proud of her. She did it with grace and confidence. I know she must have been scared, but you would have never known. I can only wish that one day I can possess as much confidence and courage that she has.

I love her no matter who she loves. She is my sister. My best friend. She is my heroine.

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