Why does good news always come with bad news?
I've noticed that for every bit of good news, bad news is right around the corner. It's irritating and I think it's unfair. For once, I'd like some good news and even better news! Is that so much to ask for??? Unfortunately, thats exactly how this entry is. I've got some good news and some not so good news....
I think I'll start out on a happy note. My ex, who I was in love with and then he broke my heart, and I have made up. We're not back together, but we are finally on speaking terms. As bitter as I was towards him, I still missed having him around (even if he wasn't mine anymore). He was my best friend and he knew things about me that not many people know. Because we were so close it was hard for me to try and forget him. How can you let someone so close to you go? We forgave each other and even went out and got some food and caught each other up on our lives. It was nice. And I never really realized how much I had miss him.
On to the bad news....
There is this guy I have been dating for about 3 months now. He is great. He's smart, he always makes me laugh, he's sweet, and he's cute. But after catching up with my ex, I've realized that I don't care about my guy now as much as I can care about a person. I like him and I would love to be friends with him, but I don't think being in a relationship with him is the best thing. I don't want to get back with my ex, but I do know how it feels to really like someone and care about them. I just don't feel like that right now. I think I'm going to have to break up with him. The worse thing is, I know that he really cares about me and I don't want to break his heart because I know how much it hurts.
I don't know what to do.
Even though you are extremely close with your ex and want to remain friends. An ex is an ex for a reason. Not saying that you want to get back together with him but being friends with him might not be a good thing.
ReplyDeleteNow, as far as your current relationship I would think you would have felt like this about him before you reunited with your ex. Because if you didn't then your ex is clearly clouding your judgement and you may be jumping to fast.
But this is just my two cents.
I'd suggest that you take a bit more time to decide what to do with the guy you're seeing after you've met up with your ex, as like Joy says I think he might be clouding your judgment.
ReplyDeleteGood luck with whatever you decide. It's a really tough decision.
Kate x
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ReplyDeleteAs for your dilema I know how you feel I been there long,long time ago. I agree with Kate you need more time, you have to know exactly what you want and make concious decisions, not emotional decision. You need to heal and become stronger, and you will. It is a difficult herdle to get trough, but you come out a stroger person.
I agree with Joy :( Give it some time!
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